I can definitively say that society affects the way we live our lifestyle.By society I mean all the people around us.We as teenagers feel like we need to fit in with them because if we don’t we are considered weird or something out of that sense.Society may often lead us to a low self esteem and insecurity , but the thing is that they are the ones with insecurities.
They try to find that self-esteem through being cool , dressing nice , etc …This is why you should not listen to what people say , YES i know its hard but always remember that they are the ones who are insecure inside even if they don’t display it.
You become secure about yourself when you don’t follow these type of people . Not changing shows that you know you are , and that you don’t need to change the way you are just too please others.This is what THEY are doing and yet they often feel lost.There is difference between changing and bettering/ improving yourself.
An example is when a person changes the way they dress and act and also change the way they talk to people.When a person improves themselves is when maybe the person decides to try a different hairstyle etc but they are the same person.
Don’t fall into the hands of society.